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Fortify Your Marriage in Any Season & Any Situation...

Identify the path to experience true freedom and healthy communication in your marriage.

Every couple struggles with it: Conflict, Hurtful Moments, and Disappointment.

They are all part of the marriage journey. However, marriages can be maintained and conflicts can be managed when we are willing to unmask and work through it to resolve differences.

In our years of working with and coaching Christian Couples, we have found one thing is constantly true, whether it is realized or not: Pains from the Past stunt our Present Growth.

Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE, has inner hurts that MUST be dealt with eventually to allow for stronger bonds with our spouse.

In the Loving Your Spouse 5-Day Challenge Oscar & Tamika will help you discover the secrets of unmasking your obstacles and developing your love & marital resolve.

Your Marriage is the Most Important Relationship that you will ever have with anyone not named Jesus Christ!! So, allow us to help you step into a new level of love: LOVING Your Spouse.

Hey Influential Spouse, Oscar Here!

I’m delighted you’re considering joining us for the next round of the Loving Your Spouse Challenge. I know what it’s like to be a Christian, spouse in a significant leadership role within church and the community.  Undeniable professional relationships under your belt and SIMULTANEOULY struggle, the way we do sometimes, to show up and manage conflict within our marriages.  - That was me fifteen years ago... I was a Residence Life Director. I cared passionately about the program objectives of conflict resolution amongst my staff and residents.  

I wanted to write you this note to help you understand why I’m hosting the challenge so you can work out if it resonates with you or not.

  I had so many ideas and insights that I was keen to communicate and contribute to conversation about how to make things better for others relationships and yet when push came to shove and it was my turn to handle conflict within any "intimate" relationship, what I’d manage was borderline emotional abuse at best! Sometimes I was intimidated, sometimes I was crippled by imposter thoughts and other times I’d see the BS happening but lack a personal sense of power, authority and confidence to express myself without pushing my partner away. So if you identify with any (or all) of this you’re in good company!

I wanted to write you this note to help you understand why I’m hosting the challenge so you can work out if it resonates with you or not.



Let me share a little back story…

When my wife and I were married she had 11:00 o'clock curfew! Yes, I said curfew.  What I didn't know it was because of insecurities from my youth. The males figures within my family taught me  women shouldn't be trusted.  I was taught the only things open up after 11:00 p.m. were 7 eleven convenience stores, and legs.   I grew desperately wanting love, but settling for occasional sex.  As a young Christian I could never openly state this...



Let me share a little back story…

When my wife and I were married she had 11:00 o'clock curfew! Yes, I said curfew.  What I didn't know it was because of insecurities from my youth. The males figures within my family taught me  women shouldn't be trusted.  I was taught the only things open up after 11:00 p.m. were 7 eleven convenience stores, and legs.   I grew desperately wanting love, but settling for occasional sex.  As a young Christian I could never openly state this...

That was the beginning of what I call "Living Behind The Mask"...


From the age of twelve until well into my early forties, few people knew the rage behind my masks - I was a master hider, desperate for companionship and look normal! But then in 2014 through what seemed like a random series of events I perceived God asking me to UNMASK, to stop hiding from the heart wounds and let people see what how He healed me - 

I embarked on a very personal (and in parts painful) journey of self discovery and unmasking, I made up my mind to show up in my world, my work and my relationships for real - no more hiding!

It's Time To Unmask Your Marriage For True Intimacy!

The journey to unmasking has been incredible and I’ve learned THREE profound lessons:

Unmasking is the single most challenging thing I have ever done but what I’ve learned and what I now teach to my clients is revolutionizing the way Kingdom Couples who influence others are showing up within the family unit and community making their mark and leading important & meaningful change!!!

Come Join The Challenge And Let Me Show You How

How It Works

Every day for five days at 6pm (CDT) we'll meet for an hour in a PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP. I'll teach an aspect of our unique relationship development framework, we'll talk as a group about how this applies to us individually and collectively and I'll issue the challenge of the day to help you embed the learning in an highly personalized way.

The Curriculum

Day One ~ Redefining Purpose
Day Two ~ Finding Your Purpose For Expectations
Day Three ~ Unmasking Your Power Blockers & Intimacy Inhibitors
Day Four ~ Fortifying The Marriage
Day Five ~ Stepping Onto Your Power Path

What You'll Get

Outside of our daily meet ups you'll have access to our private Facebook group where your questions will be answered, you'll be supported by us and your fellow Kingdom couples. There will be lots of bonuses, gifts and and giveaways to be had too.

Meet Your Host: Tamika & Oscar West 

Tamika and Oscar West, are Kingdom Entrepreneurs, and founders of West Development Solutions which specializes in Relationship Development.  The couple believes Kingdom principles prepare, protect, and promote healthy relationships.  Their mission is to restore and equip relationships after trauma.  The two met in college and both worked in Residence Life.  After graduating, Oscar became Residence Life Director where he pioneered, co-ordinated and led interpersonal/intrapersonal relationships services serving highly vulnerable and marginalized groups. 

Today, Oscar and Tamika both works within the education field as Professional Development Trainers, Strategic Ally and trusted advisor to some of the most influential women and men across sectors and industries.  
The couple is challenging and changing the inner narrative about what it means to be a credible influencer in todays fast shifting expectations within relationships. Their clients are Supervisors, Directors and Heads across sectors because when relationships truly thrive (not just appear like they are thriving) so do families, organizations, businesses, the community and ultimately our world.  

Everyone experiences certain types of trauma within relationships.  However, when the trauma is prolonged and/or are multiplied by what's called complex trauma - relationships struggle. Oscar & Tamika story of "unmasking" is a powerful metaphor that is now captivating and inspiring relationships across the globe.  They're passionate about and are uniquely skilled to help couples leverage past challenges as fuel to build more intimate relationships.  

"We help equip couples with Kingdom principles to promote powerful, intimate, relationships - it's imperative relationships are cultivated by healthy communication!" ~ Tamika & Oscar 

"Oscar West is one of the most rational, calm men I know. His faith has molded him into a skilled listener, and thus a model problem solver. His approach to calm reasoning will help anyone learn how to control emotions when facing financial, emotional, or physical hardship. His class is a must to learn how to win over emotions and strife. ~Howard Castay, Owner Castay Media

"Mr. West is quite a talented colleague with a personality that readily draws individuals to his inner circle. His keen sense of humor during presentations keeps your attention.
Some of Mr. West’s greatest qualities is his dedication in planning, preparing, and executing exemplary work, along with loyalty and respect for those he meets. He values education and has a deep desire to assist and empower with knowledge." ~Tammy J. Drexler, Elementary Program Manager St. Mary Parish School System

"Mr. West has been a friend, coworker, spiritual mentor. The insight he has given me has allowed me to approach life, work, and people from a new perspective. Also, having the opportunity to watch this father to interact with young people can be only labeled as a gift from God! I am thankful to have him in my circle!, ~Dr. Derrick White, Sr., Director of Secondary Performance and Accountability

Frequently Asked Questions

What If I Can't Attend The Live Sessions?

Each session will be recorded and you will be able to watch the replays in our Facebook community for up to four days after the challenge ends but I strongly urge you to do what you can to attend live. The effort to attend LIVE will definitely enrich your experience

What if I don't have a Facebook Account?

ALL challenge activity will take place in our Facebook Group so it's essential you have an account. It's free and easy to set one up and you can keep your presence on the platform as private as you like but you definitely need one to participate in this challenge.

What If I'm Not  Married?

This challenge is designed for married couples. However I know that the content can benefit all relationships, so if you are in a relationship with a burning desire to know important meaningful change that can happen in your personal and/or business relationship, we promise we won't turn you away from the challenge. You are welcome - Register away!

Let's Unmask and Build Kingdom Families One Heart At A Time!

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